NiWco LOVE LANE - THE LADIES HEART IS NOT FOR SALE, IS IT?

WHO WINS A GIRL'S HEART?
1. A rich guy?
2. A funny guy?

3. A romantic guy?

Tosin: I don't really have much of an opinion on this, because I think it varies; but I want to believe a rich guy wins a lady's heart because  no romance without finance sister. And really if the guy has no sense of humour they can always go to a comedy show. The guy has to possess some other attributes before some ladies will go for a poor guy.

Sandra: 😏😏😏😏😏😏
So you mean that a girl's heart is for sale?

Tosin: Seriously it's not about for sale; it's about using certain tools to get what will pull the lady's heart strings... 🤷🏽‍♀

Sandra: Tools. Like a car or a mansion that she may not have peace of mind in? Like some ladies will say, they'll rather cry in a Bentley than trek under the sun... Does that mean he possesses her heart?Do you know how many rich men have women who are in love with other men?

Tosin: Plenty.

Sandra: Toh! So how does the rich man get her heart then?

Victory: Funny guys all the way, for me.

Sandra: Why V?

Tosin: Still the rich guys keep getting the ladies and even have numerous side chicks to their credit.

Sandra: The question is not who gets the hottest girl. It is WHO GETS THE GIRL'S HEART?

Tosin: He got the part of the heart that wants every material thing. We live in a world of double standards.

Victory: Everyone wants to be happy. So Funny guys usually give the illusion that you are, and other things matter less.

Sandra: V, Can you explain better so I understand what you mean? Maybe with an illustration...

Sandra: Tosin, A part of the heart you say? Not the heart. Who gets the whole?

Tosin: You know I stated earlier that I do not have much of an opinion on the topic, because majority of the ladies out there do not follow their hearts, so at the end of the day the rich gets it albeit, 'not love'. Money pulls the heart strings in this world.

Sandra: Hmmmmm... You're almost so certain every girl can be bought while you say you don't have an opinion Tosin.

Stella: A rich guy ohh.. Who funny epp? Even rich independent girls want rich dudes. Money makes love sweet.

 Sandra: 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Splendid entrance. Please burst my brain Ella. 🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯

Tosin: Sandra, I didn't say every girl. I said most and I said some will go; for others for probably more reasons than stated.

Stella: That's because 90% of human needs is settled with money.

Tosin: See😁...

Stella: You cannot be with your husband and be laughing at his jokes when unna never chop and pikin school fees dey one corner. Even you your self you wanna change your wardrobe.

Victory: In contrast to a rich or romantic guy, a funny guy plays on the most basic of human desires - HAPPINESS. I mean, money makes you happy (we all know 😂) but I think a girl will easily trust a guy who makes her laugh  than one who tries to impress her with cash and affluence.

Sandra: Great! I actually do agree with you. Science has proven that people are half way in love with you once you make them smile and then fall in love with you when you make them laugh.

Stella: I disagree. Let us be more realistic.
You haven't seen love go sour because of lack of money? Even jokes becomes annoying...

Victory: Lol, I get. We all wanna seem "woke" but let's face reality. A good percentage of rich homes do not contain love.

Sandra: if you'll agree with me El, you are talking from the head not the heart here. Realistically there are things money cannot buy and they leave you with that vacuum no matter how fat your account is.

Stella: I have met so many girls who thought their spouses were romantic but in reality they weren't;  they just happened to have what it takes to make her comfortable. One thing you need to understand is, rich isn't all about cash....

Sandra: Those aforementioned cases are temporal issues that only become a problem when you don't love and have not given your heart El.

Victory: 😕 Please, what other rich have you been talking about Ella?

Stella: A guy might not be rich in cash, but his ideas are wealthy. Give it time.... BOOM... money every where.

Victory: Lol, you're introducing a new person. We said rich... Not about-to-be-rich.

Stella: I disagree.

Sandra: Sandra: Urmmmmm... Wealth and riches are quite different right now; even though we know they're just semantics imposed on us by motivational speakers. But the point is, what we mean by rich in this discourse is, the man with money, ego, Benjamins, doh, owo... Can take you to Paris for shopping, dubai for sightseeing, buys you a Prado when he cheats, or a Bentley when he hits you... That's the type of rich we talking about.
What makes a girl married to Mr. nice rich guy still fall in love with the gate man or driver or even the cook?

Tosin: Reality is what stares at us daily, big men go for the 'tushest' ladies in town these days. They believe in what they see and she has 'their heart'. Also a lot of ladies are carried away by the latest things money can buy and they do not have the time to spare for a broke funny guy not to talk of the expense of giving their heart. Though it happens in some cases.

Stella: I know exactly what I am saying... I have personally carried out a survey on this. Let's not digress from the topic. Who wins? Haven't you seen girls always clinging to funny guys and putting them in friend ZONE?

Victory: Lol, girls cheat on rich men with funny guys.

Stella: Yes.. You just said it. Don't get it twisted. They are married to rich men and cheating with funy dudes🤣🤣🤣..  Shame on the funny dudes.

Victory: Actually, shame on the rich men. I mean, I think it's quite embarrassing, so much money, and the person that matters most isn't even really yours. You keep assuming that everyone in a relationship or those married are definitely in love. This is real life.That doesn't happen. A girl may be more likely to marry a rich guy, doesn't mean he's won her heart. That's why she still has space in the heart to cheat with others 😹😹

Tosin: I rather think it's shame on the girl that couldn't go for her heart but chooses comfort. It is assumed though that he who gets the girl gets her heart and at the end he wins. It might not be true love but it is comfort love and not all of them cheat too.

Sandra: Hmmmmm... We talking of the girl's heart though Ella and Tosin... I quite get the points you're making. The man with the money gets the girl. I'm still wondering if he truly gets her heart or while they're on a trip she uses his money to sponsor her lover and lodges him in the same hotel as them and also feeds him with her rich guy's cash as well.

Stella: Tosin, but you know there are rich faithful guys? They brekete...

Victory: Lol, trust me, those 'rich faithful guys' have an amazing sense of humor.

Sandra: True... But I have seen funny guys who don't know when to stop. They joke about everything even when she wants to be serious. But a romantic guy is sensitive to when she wants to cry, laugh or just sit there and hug. Dude the romantic guy gets it so he gets her heart!

Stella: The topic for me would have focused on
Rich
Poor and
Average

Victory: I think that would've been imbalanced, obviously in favour of the rich.

Sandra: Oh but no one is talking about the romantics... They do all the things you like. Open doors for you, say sorry and please and stop when you ask them to. Remember your birthdays and important occasions in your life, licks the chocolate off your skin... Oh lawd...
Who wouldn't fall for this type of guy? I think I go with the romantic guy o. What do women clamour for when you attend all these relationship seminars?
You hear them say,  I WANT A MAN WHO RESPECTS ME.
So if she were married to a rude rich guy and a humble respectful romantic guy comes along, guys he's got her heart!

Stella: Rather than choosing a romantic guy over a funny dude, the reverse is the case for me. All those romantic guys are heart breakers.

Victory: 😹😹
Now I understand why you hate funny guys.

Stella: They will do every every, suck every every, cuddle every every, and finally break and shatter the heart.

Victory: 😹

Stella: Girls are now very sensitive, they rather follow the rich because the rich will care in cash and kind.
Let's be realistic, guys please be involved.

Victory: Anyhow sha, lemme advertise myself. I'm funny and romantic 😏
and the money will soon come.

Stella: Nah wah ohh 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Victory: 😹😹
Abi o

Sandra: 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣.

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Funny guys are not to be trusted. Ask #poetolu

Tosin: So Sandra remember we are working with the options you gave. How does a romantic guy feed a lady and cater for her needs apart from her emotions?

Sandra: Most of them are sugar boys or f*** boys. So he doesn't need to do anything. She pays the bills. If you know you know. Don't quote me o.

Stella: Romantic guys go for rich sugar mummies and still f*** the available girls. Hahaha.

Sandra: 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Ella that just answers the question. If he doesn't have the heart, how does he break it?
So the romantic guy for the win. EOD.

Stella: No ooo. The romantic cannot be for the win ohh. They are cunning for Africa. The rich these days win a girl whether married or single. Babes cannot come and be on the loosing side.

Sandra: Ella... 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

I thought you were being realistic? what do you have against these guys? Oya share.... We need to know why they must not just win...

Tosin: 🤣🤣

Stella: 🤣🤣🤣.... Because they no longer win girls' hearts now a days na. If not you wouldn't see call girls looking for rich dudes; rich girls looking for rich dudes; poor girls looking for rich dudes.

Sandra: They are on the look out for such men because of their immediate needs. Or are you trying to say every girl is hungry and desperate? Because that's what this looks like.

Tosin: As in, the ladies want to be on the winning team, the money side... 🤝🏼

Sandra: Oya let's accept Victory's funny guys then. Although I don't like funny guys every time sha. They can take you for a joke. Try to crack a joke at a funeral... My God!

Stella: 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Victory: Lol, not all funny guys are so foolish. Some have sense 😌.

Stella: Just be more realistic ... The rich has the moving train filled with girls hearts... 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Tosin Yali: OK o

 Victory: 😹😹
😂😆😆

Sandra: Yepaaaaaa...  Moving train kwa?
My sister love over money anytime o.

Samuel: 😂😂😂

Stella : How are you sure that a funny or romantic  dude will give u love sister?

Samuel: All 3 can win a girl's heart but let's be real, not all 3 can keep the heart till the end. So, I'd say money because being romantic and having a good sense of humour is surely attractive but if you don't have money, it'll all crumble.

Tosin: Oh Sammy you are just there👌👌👏

Stella Okenwa: 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Victory: Lol. The argument is that money doesn't even sincerely and entirely win the heart in the first place.

Samuel: 😁😁

Samuel: Lol
In the first place, yes, it may not. But as time goes on, without the money, it won't work out.

Stella: 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 God bless you sir. You are now realistic.

Samuel: Lol 😇

Sandra: I really don't like the funny but the romantic guy will give love because he is love personified...

Should I break it down again?
A guy that wakes you up in the morning with breakfast in bed,
Helps you do the house chores,
Sits with you in the saloon while you do your hair and makes every woman there jealous of you, A guy who will watch your favorite program with you and even discuss it,
What about liking the same books?
Then when it comes to Za oza room, he knows his onions... He studied the art of love making and dishes to you chapter by chapter every round...
Does your rich dude have that time?
If that type of guy leaves you, you think you will ever move on like all these celebrities are forming moving on? My sister he would have broken, smashed and melted the heart he possessed so there'll be nothing left for the rich or funny dude to even have.
The romantic guy for the win jor.

Stella Okenwa: Is that what u think 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
 My belle ohhh. I no argue again.

Victory: Money will not keep love. In fact, money is more likely to lose it first. There's a lot more rich broken homes than poor ones.

Stella: Go and check why there are broken homes Victory...

Okay,  that's where we pull the curtain for love lane discourse from NiWco street today. What says you about the topic? Leave your comments in the section below.

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